A Consent-Forward, Embodied Pathway Into Desire, Conscious Kink, and Intimacy
Working with me is not about fixing yourself, learning scripts, or becoming someone you’re not.
It’s about remembering how to listen to your body, trust your desire, and move through intimacy with clarity, confidence, and self-attunement.
Whether you are new to kink, curious about power dynamics, or longing for deeper intimacy in your relationships, this work meets you where you are and supports you in expanding from there.
A 12-Day Exploration Into Desire, Self-Discovery, and the Parts of You Waiting to Be Known
There are moments when desire speaks before we have the language to understand it.
A fantasy that keeps returning.
A curiosity you hesitate to admit.
A feeling you cannot quite explain.
A pull toward something that makes you wonder...
"Where did this come from?"
"Why does this excite me?"
"What does this say about who I am?"
For many of us, these questions do not come with curiosity.
They come with fear.
Because we live in a world that has taught us to divide ourselves into acceptable and unacceptable parts.
The parts we can share.
And the parts we hide.
The desires we can easily explain.
And the ones we keep tucked away in the quiet corners of our imagination.
Many people spend years disconnected from their erotic selves, not because they lack desire, but because they were never given the tools to understand it.
They were never taught that desire carries information.
That fantasy is often symbolic.
That our erotic selves speak in emotions, sensations, and experiences.
They were never taught that curiosity can be an act of self-compassion.
And that shame is not the only way to relate to the parts of ourselves we don't yet understand.
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Over 12 days, you will be guided through a deeper exploration of your erotic self.
Through daily audio reflections, intentional journaling, and two live coaching experiences, you will be invited to slow down and explore the questions beneath the questions.
Not simply:
"What am I into?"
But:
"What feeling am I seeking?"
"What part of myself wants permission to be expressed?"
"What experiences make me feel most alive?"
"What have I learned to judge that I might instead approach with compassion?"
You will begin to uncover the emotional threads woven through your desires.
The stories.
The needs.
The longings.
The parts of yourself waiting to be witnessed.
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Each day of Uncover Your Kink will offer a new opportunity to pause and explore.
You will receive guided audio reflections delivered through Telegram, creating moments of intentional connection throughout the experience.
You will receive journal prompts designed to help you move beyond surface-level curiosity and into deeper self-awareness.
You will join two live coaching sessions where we will gather together, reflect, and explore in community.
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You have desires you are curious about but have never felt safe exploring.
You have wondered whether your fantasies are "normal."
You want to understand yourself beyond labels.
You want to reconnect with your body and your erotic self.
You are ready to replace shame with curiosity.
You want to explore intimacy in a way that honors both your boundaries and your desires.
You sense there is more to discover about yourself.
THE EDGE JOURNEY
At the heart of my 1:1 work is Edge: a six-month, intimate coaching journey designed for individuals who want a curated, grounded, and transformative approach to intimacy and kink.
Edge is where you meet your boundaries, fears, patterns, and nervous system responses. It is who you become when safety, attunement and self-trust become fully present.
Together, we create a container where desire becomes intelligible, embodied, and freeing. One where you walk away being able to trust your erotic voice wholeheartedly.
The tease journey
Tease is my 6-week group coaching container designed for individuals who are looking for an entrance into exploring their desires on their terms and shed shame that no longer belongs to them.
Tease is your introduction into the desires you’ve been seeking to awaken.
If you are interested in joining the next group coaching container, sign up now.
Our next group container starts FALL 2026!
We meet Tuesday evenings for 6 weeks.
Recordings available for any session you miss!
SCHEDULE a FREE CONSULTATION
This work begins with a conversation.
Before entering an intimate 1:1 coaching container, we’ll meet for a complimentary 30 minute consultation: a spacious, grounded call to explore resonance, readiness, and fit.
There is no pressure to decide.
No performance required.
Only an invitation to listen to your body, your curiosity, and what feels aligned.
From My Clients
“Erotic intelligence stretches far beyond a repertoire of sexual techniques. It is an intelligence that celebrates curiosity and play, the power of the imagination, and our infinite fascination with what is hidden and mysterious”
Esther Perel
Not sure yet?
You’re welcome to begin by attending a workshop or event to experience my facilitation style and approach in a community setting.