RESOURCES

Listen, Reflect, Explore.

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the shame slayer is HERE!

A shame-free, kink-positive podcast for queer babes exploring intimacy, BDSM basics, taboo desire, and erotic liberation. Join Alisa, a queer somatic intimacy coach, as we de-shame your desires, decode fantasies, and explore kink, pleasure, and deeper connection through nervous system wisdom and conscious communication. Step into your erotic power.

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free sexual archetype quiz.

This quiz is designed to help you uncover your Sexual Archetype, the pathway to the feelings you crave in your erotic and intimate experiences.

When you understand your archetype, you’ll begin to:
• recognize what truly turns you on
• communicate your desires with more clarity
• deepen connection with yourself and your partner

The quiz is quick! Just 5 multiple-choice questions.

This is a tool for exploration—not a box to fit into.

Ready to discover yours? → Take the quiz

Kink Exploration Starter Kit
$27.00

Your intimacy journey doesn’t have to wait. Take your growth home with you through these downloadable guides and practices designed to help you explore intimacy, embodiment, and desire at your own pace, wherever you are. Whether you’re just beginning or looking to deepen your practice, this digital library offers practical tools, reflections, and embodiment exercises to support your connection with yourself and others. Not ready for 1:1 coaching?

Start here and discover resources that empower you to understand your desires, release shame, and cultivate intimacy on your own terms.

Kink Exploration Starter Kit
$27.00

Your intimacy journey doesn’t have to wait. Take your growth home with you through these downloadable guides and practices designed to help you explore intimacy, embodiment, and desire at your own pace, wherever you are. Whether you’re just beginning or looking to deepen your practice, this digital library offers practical tools, reflections, and embodiment exercises to support your connection with yourself and others. Not ready for 1:1 coaching?

Start here and discover resources that empower you to understand your desires, release shame, and cultivate intimacy on your own terms.

HOW THESE WORK TOGETHER

The podcast offers ongoing reflection and perspective.

The quiz offers quick and actionable insight.

The Starter Kit offers structured self-inquiry.

Together, they create a low-pressure entry into this work, one rooted in curiosity, agency, and consent.

If at any point you want deeper guidance or relational support, you’re welcome to explore live workshops or 1:1 coaching. See if coaching is a right fit for you by booking a 30-minute free consultation.