WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
Experiential spaces for exploration, erotic truth, and powerful transformation
These are not lectures. These are thresholds.
My workshops and events are invitations into depth.
They are not lectures.
They are not performances.
They are not places to prove anything.
They are curated, consent-forward spaces designed to support embodied exploration of desire, intimacy, power, and erotic identity held with care, clarity, and nervous-system awareness.
Whether you are new to kink/intimacy work or deeply experienced, these spaces are built to meet you where you are and guide you into deeper attunement with yourself and others.
What Makes These Spaces Different
Every workshop and event I facilitate is grounded in:
• Embodiment over performance
• Consent as an ongoing, felt experience
• Nervous system regulation and pacing
• Trauma-informed facilitation
• Clear containers for intensity and play
• Choice, autonomy, and self-responsibility
Nothing here is rushed.
Nothing is demanded.
Participation is always invitational.
THEMES I EXPLORE
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Sexuality
• Erotic embodiment and sensation
• Kink, fantasy, and desire exploration
• Power dynamics and conscious submission/domination
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BDSM
• Role-play, archetypes, and erotic imagination
• Nervous system regulation in BDSM
• Kink as shadow work and self-integration
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Intimacy
• Communication, negotiation, and aftercare
• Somatic practices for intimacy and connection • Attuning to your needs
what you can expect
When you attend one of my workshops or events, you can expect:
• Clear opening and closing rituals
• Consent frameworks explained and practiced
• Grounded theory paired with experiential exercises
• Space for reflection, integration, and choice
• Respect for different identities, orientations, and experience levels
• A facilitator who tracks the room, not just the material
You are never required to share, touch, or disclose beyond what feels right for you
who these spaces are for
These experiences are for you if you:
• Are curious about kink, power, or fantasy and want a grounded entry point
• Want to deepen erotic embodiment and emotional attunement
• Crave intimacy that feels alive, not scripted
• Want to explore desire without shame or pressure
• Value consent, integrity, and nervous-system care
You do not need prior experience.
You do not need to know exactly what you want yet.
Curiosity is enough.
UPCOMING EVENTS
UPCOMING EVENTS
Ready to dive into your wildest fantasies? Join us for a playful, immersive workshop designed to bring your erotic role-play scenes to life! Whether you’re a curious beginner or a seasoned kinkster, this class helps you deepen your fantasy exploration by uncovering your why; the emotions, desires, and sensations that fuel your erotic imagination. You’ll explore movement, breath, and character play to bridge fantasy and reality, and tap into your primal energy through a guided “animal” embodiment exercise. Learn how to use rituals, props, and communication tools to share fantasies, navigate boundaries, and co-create scenes that feel safe, hot, and deeply connected. Leave feeling confident, attuned, and inspired to bring your fantasies vividly and safely to life.
March 7th
Fairfax, VA
fANTASIES REALIZED: The art of roleplay in kink
KINK AS A TOOL FOR EMBODIED SHADOW WORK
May 30th
THRIVE Virtual Conference
In this welcoming, trauma-informed workshop for THRIVE, we’ll explore how kink can become a playful, mystical pathway for shadow work and intentional healing. Designed for both beginners and experienced kink practitioners, this session looks at how BDSM’s structure, sensation, and archetypes can support the integration of repressed desires, taboo emotions, and hidden parts of the self.
You’ll learn how to weave shadow-work principles into scenes, negotiate with clarity, and use somatic tools for grounding and aftercare. We’ll also explore neurodiversity-affirming approaches, including how kink can support sensory regulation, emotional expression, and flexible communication for neurodivergent participants.
Leave with practical ways to bring more intention, self-acceptance, and depth into your kink practices, along with a fresh understanding of how kink can be a powerful tool for healing and embodied transformation.
for organizations & collaborators
I partner with organizations, community spaces, and event hosts who value depth, integrity, and embodied learning.
My workshops are designed to meet communities where they are, offering consent-forward, trauma-informed experiences that explore intimacy, power, and erotic embodiment without sensationalism or pressure.
Each collaboration is intentionally crafted to align with your community’s values, experience level, and container. Whether that’s an educational conference, a curated retreat, a private community gathering, or an intimate in-person experience held in my own event space.
In addition to offering my own workshops and facilitation, I also host a small, intentionally designed event space for groups of 20–30, ideal for facilitators, practitioners, and community leaders seeking a grounded, intimate setting for embodiment-based learning, discussion, and ritual.
I bring:
• Clear facilitation and strong container-holding
• Nervous-system-aware pacing and attunement
• Consent-centered frameworks that scale for groups
• Experience working with both beginner and advanced audiences
• Ease, professionalism, and collaborative communication
If you’re seeking a facilitator or a space where complexity is held with care, and where both the psychology and lived realities of kink and intimacy are deeply understood, I welcome the conversation.